Things that are EXTREMELY my shit: this adorable form

true story: my wife-to-be gave me this form to finish filling out, long before we started dating. I still have it in a drawer somewhere.

Normalize piecemeal relationship building!!

@zkat aww i saw this on tumblr years ago, i love it


I still remember a situation long ago, when I was asked at saying goodbye if I was OK with a small kiss in order to find out how it feels.
And my answer was well awaited.
Then we had a short kiss. And we both liked it and realised it was good.
At the next meeting we had more kisses...

I felt extremely respected and cared for and that felt SO GOOD!

@zkat this is so wonderful. i wish i'd had a knowledge of how healthy relationships could work back when I was dating

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