Things that are EXTREMELY my shit: this adorable form
true story: my wife-to-be gave me this form to finish filling out, long before we started dating. I still have it in a drawer somewhere.
Normalize piecemeal relationship building!!
I still remember a situation long ago, when I was asked at saying goodbye if I was OK with a small kiss in order to find out how it feels.
And my answer was well awaited.
Then we had a short kiss. And we both liked it and realised it was good.
At the next meeting we had more kisses...
I felt extremely respected and cared for and that felt SO GOOD!
On the internet, everyone knows you're a cat — and that's totally okay.