@zkat At least now I know who this TERF is! I don't have to come up with counterarguments to her arguments in that texts. Or at least I think I don't have to.
But I don't know how to explain this to my partner, who is, like, "OK, she's TERF, but you got to admit she has some valid points" :(
I understand that it can't be all that smooth. I just wish it didn't involve them going down the TERF hole, and me having to argue with that.
Sorry for the rant. Your courage means so much to me.