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Auntie Kiki @okiekiki

Because I needed it recently, a reminder:

It's ok to turn off push notifications from apps. It's ok to unsubscribe from email lists. It's ok to unfollow. Your attention is yours to give.

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@okiekiki it is extremely ok, and often healthy. i struggle with this wrt birdsite unfollows but am trying to remind myself it is ok, especially if it's not a friendship situation and they're only stressing me out...sigh


Yes! It's been difficult. People want explanations as to why you're only responding two days later.

@NattyGov We've definitely trained ourselves to expect quick responses (both to get and give). And yet so few things really require it.

My wife told me the same thing last night. I was like, "woman, you're a genius"