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Auntie Kiki @okiekiki
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Because I needed it recently, a reminder:

It's ok to turn off push notifications from apps. It's ok to unsubscribe from email lists. It's ok to unfollow. Your attention is yours to give.

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@okiekiki it is extremely ok, and often healthy. i struggle with this wrt birdsite unfollows but am trying to remind myself it is ok, especially if it's not a friendship situation and they're only stressing me out...sigh

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Yes! It's been difficult. People want explanations as to why you're only responding two days later.

@NattyGov We've definitely trained ourselves to expect quick responses (both to get and give). And yet so few things really require it.

@okiekiki
My wife told me the same thing last night. I was like, "woman, you're a genius"