20k => 25k feels GREAT
80k => 90k feels kinda nice, I guess
@cyrinsong Money can only do so much, I guess.
@cyrinsong The trick at that point, imx, is to convince yourself to save as much of that other $40k as you can so you can afford to make $20k/year choices
@audrey I forgot that was a thing!!! I wanna try working towards that when my life is less........ messy
@cyrinsong coworker of mine who's a single mom with a brand new baby has said she's needed every dime for benefits and childcare, probably not your sitch tho
@ehashman yea I am extremely only supporting myself