I think in order to feel #DisabilityPride, a person needs to have a workable answer to this question: What does it mean to believe in oneself _and_ accept one's own limitations?
How do YOU relate to the things you're bad at but have to do anyway? Or the things you feel judged for not being able to do at all?
See the (free!) #Patreon post for this:
https://www.patreon.com/posts/self-worth-vs-109141578